I want to tell you, about 5 years ago I was a success on this board. I Dbed my H back home, ha I came back to the bpoard in Sep just to let everyone know how it was all going.....Blow me, found out a day befor Xmas eve H had A number 2.
But Whats important is I Did DB, Now in the beginning I did all what you have done and H just moved further and furthr away. The minute I caught on it all started and I saw baby steps every week till h came home.
My main purpose for posting to you though is to tell you this. I pestered my H for details of who, why, where, when and when I got the I really regretted asking. Mind you I did Punch OW in the mouth.. Lol But seriously I puished him away with all of that.
Anyway, this time, I have not asked one question about OW, I seriously dont want to know, Im just not interested and Ill tell you why. If it wasn't her it would be another OW. Its not about OP, it really isn't.
First OW looked like Dot cotton, she was rather ugly.
So, please forget OM,
Once my H felt comfertable he started to talk to me more. You really need to back off. Its a must if you want to DB.
