I hate the title of this thread. Sorry Peaches it just doesn't fit you!
Quote: When I saw her last Sunday and Monday I was extremely gentle towards her as I have always been. Of course I begged for forgiveness and swore it will never ever happen again. Begged for forgiveness yesterday evening as well.
SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO and how many times are we going to do what is in quotes above?
because If you keep doing it, she is going to go further and further away!
You know that right?
you have read the books right?
You know that this no back bone way of being is only going to make things worse for you!
And you seem pretty low now, I don't think you want to get any lower!
Soooo, um Detaching is in order here my good friend.
is it hard, you bet your ass it is!
can you do it
you bet your ass you can! and you will become an expeert at it in no time!
I did not read everything that is going on here, but I will tell you from the little I have read, if you don't change your ways. Things are not going to look good!
So i suggest, you eat your veggies, and get ready for the fight of your life!
The fight to find your inner "ROCKY BALBOA"
And you take it one day at a time.
STOP MAKING HER FEEL GUILTY, BY TELLING HER YOU LOVE HER ,AND YOU ARE SORRY, AND ALL THAT STUFF SHE DOES NOT WANT TO HEAR!
b/c in her mind, everytime you tell her that, she is just thinking, well you should of told me all this before we got to this point!
So put your pants on tight! and your belt on even tighter!
I know it hurts lovey, trust me I do. But I am trying to help you.
You are standing for your marriage right? you want your wife back right? THEN let her go!
I know that is not what you want to hear, I know that is now what you came here looking for!
you want to read all the success stories, and all the great love stories on here,
Well they didn't come so fast to those people.
They worked really hard on themselves, before they can work on getting their marriage back.
So what are you going to do today for you sweets?
“Pray as though everything depended on God. Work as though everything depended on you.”
