she's left my life has ended

[nickfromtheuk]

Hi all:

I'd like to just thank everyone for the advice given so far. I cannot begin to tell you all how much you lifted my spirits today. I have felt such despair these last 2 days I thought I would die from the pain it is so intense. I was engulfed in a tidal waive of grief.

I know a few of you guys already.

Thanks Smurfey I've been trying to catch up with your thread but you get posted to so much its hard to keep up. I dont know how you do it. I always appreciate your advice as I know our situations are very similar.

Nickyf I was the first person to respond to your post. When your new to these forums it seems an eternity waiting for people to respond to your thread. You tend to look for threads similar to your own in the beginning to try and fathom out what the hell is happening in your life. When I posted to you I was quite new myself and did the whole refreshing of the page thing as you wait to see if anyone has answered you. I can be such a desperate time in the beginning trying to make friends on the board. I was not going to answer your thread because your a woman with husband in mlc and I was desperate for advice and knowledge for my situation. I kept seeing your post dropping down the pages and felt I needed to post to you to give you some encouragement. I know you have made scores of friends now.

Bworl.

I have not posted to you yet but I know your sitch from some of your threads. When I first saw your tag line I cried. Your marriage broke so quickly. I'm surprised your still hear but very glad. I don't know If I would still be hear faced with the cruelty and brutalness of your divorce. I always smile though when you say the battle has begun. You are amazing. I really admire your stand. Good luck with the fight.

BrandNewDay:

Has that brain dead husband not realize what a mug he is making of himself discarding a beautiful woman like you. He should be bloody thankful he met you in the first place. Sometimes I think my reasonableness with my wife sucks and good people only get dumped on. Well you continue to be one of the good ones. I told you this once before but you have a beautiful spirit. HE's a mug.

The rest of you guys: Thank you so much for your advice.

Nick