My situation has gone down hill. The is a lot of bad feeling between myself and wife over her refusal to tell me who he is. I just cannot get through to her that I just need to know. She refuses point blank saying it wont do me any good or it wont help etc. This has driven me crazy and I have been an absolute monster over the last 2 days. I threatened to stalk her, take my child back from her. Go bankrupt so the other half of our depts follow her. Basically I've threatened to ruin her life unless she tells me who it is and she still refuses. I dont know why she is trying to protect this jerk. 31 years down the drain. She insists she does not love me is not going through a mid life crisis. DOES NOT LOVE ME period. No future period.
She wont even exchange 31 years for his name. bitch... Sorry I'm in a very strange place at the moment. My head is spinning.
me 41 her 40 kids (3) 19, 16 and 6 married 20 years, together 31 years since childhood
bomb Aug 06, affair started june 06 and still going on
