Well she finally became a waw. Not only is she in mlc its also turns out she betrayed me as well. I told her I was not a fool and I know she was seeing someone, which she finally admits. She was seeing him when I took her on holiday to try and fix our marriage last october. She refuses point blank to tell me who he is.
She moved out Saturday morning with my little boy. I'm at home with the other 2 children.
I feel like my life has ended. I did all the dbstuff. Stopped talking about the relationship 180's etc but she still left. She left me 8 months ago really in spirit. The only thing I am to her is the father of her children. She says we never talked about us over the last 8 months but she never would and I stopped et al Dbing rules but hse's gone anyway. She was just waiting, biding her time.
I dont know what to do. I feel so helpless and alone. I've been with my wife for 31 years since we were kids. She is all I know. I'm 41 and I feel like the end of the world has come. IT has taken me all my strength to write this when all I feel like doing is laying down and going to sleep for a month but is will all still be here wont it.
What do I do now. Please help me. I just dont know what to do.
Nick.
me 41 her 40 kids (3) 19, 16 and 6 married 20 years, together 31 years since childhood
bomb Aug 06, affair started june 06 and still going on
