My husband and I have been married for 13 years and together for 14 years. Just before Christmas he confessed to me he had been having an affair for 3 months. I convinced him to stay and it seemed to be going well. The guilt was eating at him and he was missing the OW. It is very apparent that he is confused and not being rational. Jan 4th he took his clothes to stay with her at her apartment. At first it was I love you but I have made my choice. It does seem that some of the fog maybe lifting because he is now having to drive 30 miles to see his kids and I can tell that neither of them are happy with the situation.I want him to come home and I am having trouble with being patient. He told me he thinks about it all the time.
