My H would like to be a drop-in and cake eat......i have made him a drop out.....limited contact by my choosing....he txts and e-mails ...sometimes i answer sometimes I dont......It makes the OW much easier to deal with....hey my H is 49 ...OW is 25...how about that?


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest