My H would like to be a drop-in and cake eat......i have made him a drop out.....limited contact by my choosing....he txts and e-mails ...sometimes i answer sometimes I dont......It makes the OW much easier to deal with....hey my H is 49 ...OW is 25...how about that?
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
Thank you for the response. I am at a loss as to how this may play out. He shows so many MLC symptons, but very little contact. Protrays happiness, but even after a year is still trying to justify his leaving. If you want to ask any more questions, I would be happy to answer them if it will give any insight. Having a hard time with OW as I knew her before this happened, didn't like her then (I don't know anyone who does) and I really don't like her now. She is my exact and extreme opposite. Anyway, I am saving money to get a coaching session. I was reading Male Menopause by Jed Diamond in which it almost seemed to me that he thought that and MLC were two different things? Anyone else think that (His counselling is $500 for first initial two hour session and then $250 an hour after that)? Don't want to ramble here, so again, if you need more info please let me know and I will answer them.
Thank you soooooooooooo much for responding. I really appreciate it.
