WOW! That was really eye opening and thoughtful for you to write! It sounds like you know what you are talking about, I wish it wasn't because you have been through this HELL yourself. I see why so many people are here it really helps to have the advise of everyone going through what we are.
It is so hard to hear that it obvious that there is OW or other "girl" I should say!!
Because he denies it to the death I still get caught up in the fact that maybe it is not true, he swears that they are just friends and have never had sex! I don't believe it!!
It just makes me wonder why do I want to be with a guy who would do all of this to his family? OH yeah, I LOVE HIM!!
You gave me strength to get through the day and guess what I haven't even called him today and I have plans with a friend tonight and took the girls to a movie last night.
Do we all really believe that these guys are hurting as bad as we are? My therapist says to just sit back and watch how his life just starts to fall apart! Is it sick that I will get some joy out of this?
Wish I could get OW out of my head she lives in my state and I sometimes call her work to make sure she is there - and not with him! Tell me how long an affair can last between a 36 year old and a 21 year old who lives at home with her parents?
Thanks again!!!
J
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