Quote: That is not good or bad, simply an observation of the type of MLCer you have. It means that if you choose to Stand, you may have more of a rollercoaster ride through all phases than the LBS of a Dropout. In many ways it is more challenging due to this, but at the same time the contact can be a relief relative the Dropout's no contact
What about the Dropouts? Most of the posters here have Dropins. I see my H as he has a shop in the backyard which he does his sideline business out of (renovations). We talk about the kids or about business when he comes in the house. I have been NC since about Dec. ll. I am light in conversation when he is in the house. He is still looking for reasons to have left me (H has been gone almost 14 months and living with OW). There is so much more I could write. But what about the Dropouts?
Love and hugs for all Cynthia PS sorry for the high jack, but I have asked the question before and not gotten a response. I would love one.
