The card he gave me is not the only way he shows me he loves me/us/our family.
His actions speak volumes constantly... I posted the contents of the card because it meant alot to me. Not because I was wondering or concerned that he was making shallow promises thru someone else's writing or that that was the only way he communicates his love for me...
Never once did I say that I think he is not doing his part nor did I say that he is not showing me his efforts via his actions.
Everyone's sitch is different...my H was hell bent on wanting to divorce me and felt that way from the start. He also was brutally honest about everything. I knew more than I wanted to know.
Me: 38 H: 39 DS: 6 DD: 3 Married 7 1/2 years - together for 10 Bomb - 12/17/05 MOW Bomb - 12/25/05 Separated and H adamantly wanted a D: 1/16/06 H moved back: 8/06
