Some Advice Needed Please :)

[Heywyre]

Much easier said than done sometimes. I used to "snoop" all the time - particularly his cell bill (the confirmation extrodinare) but yesterday, when his bill came in, he handed it to me, said "you wanted to see this" and I said "no thanks, if you say there's nothing in there that I have to be concerned about, I will take your word for it". As much as it was very difficult, it felt very empowering at the same time.

However, today is a different story. He told me his cell bill was over 1,200 minutes (and the guy only works 2-3 days a week) when the hell would he put that much time on his cell? So, once again, the mind starts racing.

However, I handled it quite well (or at least I think I did) when he said "of course, this probably makes you start wondering again eh?" I said yes it did but that I am dealing with those emotions. He reassured me that there was nothing going on and that he just had to stop "yakking" to his friends (male) so much. He does have one friend in particular that he yaks to - he's on the road a lot and my H calls him because he feels sorry that he is away from home so much. I can totally understand that.