No offense to women in their early 30's but I just want to throw this out there. Do any of you think it hits them (women) early partly due to the bio clock issue? Just wondering.
Just to give brief background on my sitch to sort of show you where I'm leading into. My wife turned 30 in our first year of marriage. We tried to get pregnant, but though I wanted to have kids as well, I must admit I felt that she was more determined than I was. My mistake, unfortunately I can't turn back time.
The following year, though we still did most everything together, she started giving me the cold shoulder and admitted to feeling some depression and confusion but would not commit to therapy. Then I was served with a buffet of what I always referred to as teenager like behaviour. I mean everything from loud music, some what erratic driving, sexier clothing, etc.
We sat down and talked on several occasions and actually managed to get her to tell me her complaints about the marriage and/or me in particular. Since I was already armed with Michelle's books,I sort of know what to do. The problem was that after a while it felt to me as if she was trying to conjure up complaints as we go along. Since I was able to address one after the other. No one knew it was coming. Soon thereafter, I believe that when she couldn't come up with any more complaints, she moved out. She was just 31 when all this happened.
Anyway, my opinion is that it can also be triggered by our so called bio clock particularly those similar to my sitch. Just my $0.02
