What is it with the 30's

[~Sol]

I don't know what it is, but my W started to lose weight when she decided to have her A. She knew what she was doing, though in a messed up frame of mind. She's 33, and I met her when she was 23. She did gain weight, and never lost it until now. Thanks to other people telling her (instead of me) that she is still young, attractive, and can get any man she wants. That was back then.

I think for my sitch (and many would agree), is that we have taken our S's for granted. And if more fighting than loving took place, then it adds fuel to the fire - the makings of a pre-MLC. When I look back at all of this, especially the 10 years spent in wrecking my M, I see what an idiot I've been and had no clue about what makes a good R work. I just turned 37, and I have no intentions of having an A. I found my girl, and I want to keep her. But you do bring an interesting topic to the board....