Well, one small crisis over. Heard back from MIL and we are still having lunch tomorrow. Now I just have to concentrate all my efforts on not asking her for more info, because God knows I still need to know her name and how long they've been together, but it's not fair to ask MIL to cough that info up when H won't tell me himself.
Me:30 H:30 Together:10yr H left:Oct3'06,couple weeks before 5th wed anniv. No Kids OW bomb:Jan19'07 My thread: He filed.