It all comes out in time. You will feel so much better if you get this off your chest. No matter how many people know, there seem to be more that find out. We all protect our S for awhile. But here is the tricky part, as long as you report with just the facts, then you have nothing to worry about. Just the facts and be kind when you speak of him. Sounds like you are doing this. It was nice to know that my H has been told that I speak highly of him, still........ Even just for me. Cheers, Holly
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.