He said he's seeing someone new

[Ophelia]

OK, so I couldn't wait til tonight. As soon as I got up, I sent a txt to his mum, asking her if he was home yet. I said I'd send the txt to him, but know I'd get no response. She said he wasn't home yet, but she thought he would be this afternoon.

I replied to that with a rather harsh message about how he should grow the hell up and call me because he can't just tack onto the end of an email that he's having an affair, then run off (probably to her place) and hide instead of facing up to what he's done.

I then sent her another txt, apologising for being so harsh, but that I was more hurt and angry the longer he ignored me, and that I deserve better than that.

I then called H's phone, and he didn't answer (SHOCK!) but I left him a message saying that last night I was prepared to talk calmly, but the longer he ignored me the more angry I was getting, but we WERE going to talk about this TODAY, so could he grow a pair, be and man and call me when he gets home from wherever he is.

All this bugging him is no doubt making me look like a nagging bitch, and assuming he is at the OW place, I'm sure she's been comforting him through the ordeal of having to deal with his annoying wife. So I may just be making things worse, but right now I really can't help it.

I hate dragging his mum into this. Through this whole separation ordeal, I haven't said anything bad to her about her son, because I know it's not fair to drag her into the middle of it. It's especially not fair to drag her into it now, because it's probably dragging up all the emotions she went through when she found out about her H's affair years ago. I love that woman like she were my own mother, and I hate hurting her by getting her involved in this, I just don't know how else to get through to him if he won't contact me himself.

I'm thinking of actually calling his mum to apologise right now.