I appreciate your wisdom--I had many of those same thoughts this morning, so your comments are validating. If H is to heal, he has to seek and find it himself. He can't do it for me or her or any outside influence. And he needs his own time and space to do that. Or not.
Here's what I'm going to do for me: -start going to bed earlier -keep studying and learning how to improve my faith, communication and overall well-being -find a good solution-based marriage counselor to help me hone the skills I'm learning -keep working on choosing and directing my thoughts -take my kids to a movie this weekend -tackle some decorating and sewing projects -think of ways to show him my love without pressure/strings attached
