Thanks ROOT--I agree with your comment about making good memories. I want to eliminate any behavior that might be used by him to justify leaving. If he does, it will all have to be HIS deal. I refuse to make it easy for him. I don't think he will chose to leave. I do worry a little about him thinking he can get away with living two lives.
I too find it reassuring that OW is in another state. And the good time we spent together is definitely a positive thing.
H has mentioned several times since the bomb that he needs to return to her city for work. I know he can't put it off much longer, but it is encouraging to me that he has for this long--I have tried so hard to keep my insecurities about that to myself.
The new information on his R with OW makes me feel more anxious about this...especially since he most likely will have to go soon. The only thing I can do is keep myself under control and watch to see how everything plays out.
