Hey Rob you belong here and it's great you got out of W some of what she likes AND that it wasn't all your fault, she's realising that she has to take some responsibility for her own happiness.
My H was in a similar position around Aug/Sept last year. What helped was me carrying on with DB and keeping my focus on me and my own happiness, and not fretting about what he was thinking.
You DO belong in piecing!!! You've made the jump to light speed and you've worked hard for that.


Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05
Seperated Sept/Oct 05
Oct 06 - H recomitted
July 11 - I am now a WAW.