K A M Your H is toast. He is so MLC. They wrote the book about him.
Now you need to skip the chapters about him.
Look for the ones about you. Otherwise, you are going to spend time you can not get back, on wondering how your every move will affect him. You are going to wonder what you did wrong.
There are many things that people "think" the MLCer will notice. When you have tried them all and nothing changes, you will have a longer list of what you think you did wrong. Please don't spend much time on that. Honestly.
I created Excel spreadsheets charting and guessing how long this might last based on the article of SixStages and apparent progress made by others that came here before me. You know what, they will all still be laughing their *ss off about that one long after I am gone.
The question of the day is, and I can not stress this one enough ..."What will help me feel good about myself, give me some rest, and make me at peace with the real world?"
Right now, That Is The Meaning Of Life for you.
That is all you need to be concerned with.
Well, and if you are close to me, I could use some wine here in the jet tub.
