I am fairly new to all this MLC stuff. I would like some advice on my next step. To make a very long story short. 7 weeks ago my husband disclosed to me that he is in love with his secretary. They have slept together 4 times. She is separated from an alcoholic husband and is 10 years younger than my husband. They have been having an emotional affair for 2 years. When he told me they were sleeping together, I kicked him out of the house and filed for divorce. I have been doing the divorce busting techniques religiously. I have only talked to him 3 times since I kicked him out and that is when he called me with questions on the kids. I have not begged, pleaded, etc... I have acted like I have moved on. Anyway, he called me this morning and stated he just wanted to talk for no particular reason. He asked how I was doing (which is quite rare lately) and wanted to know if I would come over to his place for dinner one night. He did not sound like his usual cocky self but rather quite humble. I told him I would consider it. Should I go or not?? It is 7 weeks past the day I kicked him out. I do want to restore this 20 year marriage, but only the correct way. HELP
