I fully agree wit you that the kids come first. You have to protect them and she obviously has no common sense or judgement. You definitely need FULL CUSTODY and maybe even supervised visits without OM anywhere in sight.
Your sitch would scare the $hit out of me. Try to get an amazing attorney.
I'm sorry to say this, but I cannot comprehend how any woman can be so ignorant that they could fall for a guy like that. Even if he was a multi-millionare! Gosh, some people really do have screws loose in their head.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
