My H first lasted about 3 months but in that amount of time he was ready to leave me and be with OW. This time it's been going on for almost 4 months and I found out 2 weeks ago. He has no intention of stopping it... too "in love" (or is that lust?)
I would agree with the co-dependency.. OW is very weak and H is very caring (although obviously also emotionally weak!). I have always been his stability. I'm sure this will be addressed in counseling...his weakness and why he keeps putting himself in these situations.. willing to give up everything - church, family, stability...
I'm right there with you praying that they can figure it out and make it right with God first and us second..
