My H's affair has been going on for about 8 months as far as I can tell. I think they're still ok together, but I guess I'd be the last to know! He's due to stop working in the OW's country in March, so we'll see what happens then. Or rather, I'll have moved oot by then, D papers will have been filed and I won't ever have to talk to him again - hoorah!!
You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him discover it in himself. Galileo Galilei