Quote: Show that she wants to spend time with me and that she is tuely sorry. However, I really want my M back so my advice is probably not what you want to do.
I would have and still would forgive my W for the A if she would quit but I do not see that happening.
Sorry for he lack of help here but my thought would be for her to truely show that she loves me and wants to make a valid attempt at saving the M. Would volenteer to go to MC with me so that we as a couple could work through all of the issues that caused the demise of our M. Would want to start to date again and start a new R that we could work on together and learn from our past mistakes.
Oh and I forgot....Make me believe her when she says that she is sorry.
Of course these are just my opinions here.
How do you make someone believe that? I've cried, raged...been quiet and soft. Told him that if I could open up my heart to show him I would....
None of it seems to work. He's afraid of being hurt again...