Show that she wants to spend time with me and that she is tuely sorry. However, I really want my M back so my advice is probably not what you want to do.

I would have and still would forgive my W for the A if she would quit but I do not see that happening.

Sorry for he lack of help here but my thought would be for her to truely show that she loves me and wants to make a valid attempt at saving the M. Would volenteer to go to MC with me so that we as a couple could work through all of the issues that caused the demise of our M. Would want to start to date again and start a new R that we could work on together and learn from our past mistakes.

Oh and I forgot....Make me believe her when she says that she is sorry.

Of course these are just my opinions here.

Ben 32
STBXW 29
3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months)
Status: Fighting for the Kids.

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