heatherg: I dropped the bomb in September that I had an A with a guy for a few years (conferences only, long distance). And when I confessed I was in the middle of a second A at work. Both are ended, I have realized what a complete and utter jacka$$ I have been. That these guys were only after one thing and that I let them 'talk' me into it.
He is sooooo angry and all I want to do is make things better.