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it is still pretty recent, he is obviusly not ready to let go of his anger yet, if you've done all you can all that's left is to wait, to hope he decides to move on.




I don't know about his moving on.

Last phone call, we were talking R talk (barely any other talk). One point of note, he said that he's not deciding anything.

H: I'm not deciding either way (staying with me or leaving), LIFE will make that choice for me....either cancer, auto accident, another boyfriend for you, a girlfriend for me....
M: How can we build our R when you are in this place?
H: You were the one who had an A. You were the one who thought about leaving.
M: I knew that I wasn't going to...
H: When did that change?
M: After a few months into the A, I knew that I wouldn't leave you.
H: You are a stupid, f'in C-word who can leave whenever she's good and well ready.

He says that I keep making this about how I feel....but things like this make me very emotional (at work) and I have a hard time keeping it together.