When I try asking what he wants, he comes back with "a wife that doesn't cheat."

Ugh. It sucks to hear that doesn't it? Because we can't go back in time no matter how much we wish we could.

What are some of the circumstances in your situation?

"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."

- Nathaniel Hawthorne