I post something and I get hit with like 10 responses in 5 min!!!! You guys are the best!!!!
I understand my pool boy responsibilities are at serious risk....Please remember that any swimming pool in Michigan right now is officially deemed a freakin' ice rink!!! So I opted for skates instead of board shorts for the time being!!!
I know I have a lot of catching up to do! I will do what I can, but please be patient with me. Heck, I haven't been able to even take my Christmas tree down yet!!!!
Quote: It was my guess that part of your absence invloved stressful D business, but more importantly, a distraction in the female form. Life is good if we let it.
This has a little bit to do with it. But I often checked the boards from work (I have such a slow connection at home) and work has been very very hectic so far this year. The pending D settlement stuff has been the hands down biggest stress so far - but I am close to making this happen the way I want.
I too know someday she will look back on this with regret and her children will feel the same way about her as she felt about her mom. It is sad and I truly hope she gets the help she needs someday.
Oh my gosh...she realy thought I was the mistress on the side...I am so very flattered!!!! Littel does she know how in total mom mode I am...def. not the sexpot type...I'm more of the napkin licking to wipe away smudges type.
Sorry about your pool boy demotion...you'll just have to work double hard to get back up there!!!!!
Glad you have found a special person to spend some "you" time with. Your STBXW is certainly off the deep end. God bless her, she certainly will need it!
Okay so don't ignore us anymore or there will be consequences!
Luv ya! Vali
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
I am so totally happy that you are ok!! Hey sweetie, we did not ask for this. I am at the very stage you are, trying to settle which is not going so well, but he has only 2 weeks left to settle with me or he goes before the Judge and she did not like him and told him that he would not like how she divided things. So I am keeping my fingers crossed and praying things go well cuz I cannot stand living in this lost world for so long.
I AM PROUD OF YOU!!!! There is a life outside of the hell we have lived in.
But.....I am still going to scold you on your lack of attention to those who love you most. And pool boy demotion may be rectified if you keep in touch with us
LOVE YOU
Jeanette
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
It doesn't hurt to take a hard look at yourself from time to time, and this should help get you started.
During a visit to the mental asylum, a visitor asked the Director what the criterion was which defined whether or not a patient should be institutionalized.
"Well," said the Director, "we fill up a bathtub, then we offer a teaspoon, a teacup and a bucket to the patient and ask him or her to empty the bathtub." "Oh, I understand," said the visitor. "A normal person would use the bucket because it's bigger than the spoon or the teacup."
"No." said the Director, "A normal person would pull the plug. Do you want a bed near the window?"
Ahhh welcome back! I have missed you and been worried too. Glad you are doing well and seeing someone. You deserve every happiness...we all do. We didn't ask for this.
Hugs!!!
Christy M: 31 H: 33 Married ~ 13 years S12 S8 Bomb 10/05 supposedly ended A 2nd bomb 12/30/05 Separated 01/06 I filed 6/12/07 ~ new ow 3wks after moving out http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1094955&page=0#Post1094955
