BND: I am totally with you in that regard. I do not believe in Divorce. But I do believe in some things being totally beyond our control. I do not have any regrets for trying to save my marriage and for standing as long as I did. But I started to live again when I finally said "ENOUGH". This doesn't mean I believe it is right for everyone and it has nothing to do with any other person. It just became something that I knew I couldn't fix. And yes, some days I still wonder why. But I don't wish him back - EVER.
