Hi Pam!

I apologize for the delay in replying but I have barely had a minute to myself in the past week. The dizziness and yuck feeling didn't help.

Yes, we sure spent most of our time here on the bb in the old days, now didn't we? Thank God for this place, though, cause we surely would have gone Nuts without the support and understanding we got from each other.

Ya know, his calls and my question opened up many discussions and ponderings but I truly haven't given anything he has done much weight. And its all but forgotten now, but I do think this subject was something we all needed to talk about - grief, loss, forgiveness, awakenings etc. Not because we want them back when it has gone this far, but because with understanding comes further healing. And there's always room for that.

I want to know why you had to endure 2 days with your Ex and OW. You are much stronger than me, girlfriend - I do NOT have anything to do with those nuts. Do tell...

I'm leaving tommorrow, Tuesday. Going to meet Karen and Beth and Ellie and perhaps another friend or 2. Wish you could join us. Someday...

Barb