I just want to say thanks for posting above about the triggers for moving on. Wow, I have to say that my H has been way better behaved than yours was. OTOH, I have also been put through a lot of crap in our M. But that's another story!
It is good to hear that you are doing well and getting stronger by the day. I still don't know what will happen w/ my M, but I do appreciate your POV.
YOu said at one point, up near the beginning of this thread, I think, that you weren't going to have your dream of an intact family NOW. Do you mean that you will consider your family intact if you marry Josh or someone else? Or would you have more children? I'm wondering b/c that has been my big driving force as well--to have a happy, intact family. I came from an unhappy, intact family, which was not the best thing for me. If things w/ H and me don't work out (I am prepared for that, as he needs to do a lot of work on himself), I think I would probably remarry and then give my kids that family.
Sorry, I'm rambling here! Just wondering what your take is on the whole "intact family" idea.
Thanks again for this thread.
Nicola
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