Barb I also think after reading your post that you were able to walk away without any regrets.
You tried your best and can never say "if only" I had tried harder.
Although I am definately not an advocate for Divorce, I still believe that sometimes it has to happen because there are people who will never look at themselves or the damage they cause to others.
They become toxic to us and will destroy us if we do not get away from the poison.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.