Feeling a bit better tonight. I NEED to get better fast - too much going on.

GB: Good points! I think he likes to check on us every once in a while. Seems to look for flaws so he can tell me off about it (in a VM, I rarely answer). Yes, that is control.

Closure... hmmmm.... I thought I'd get more with the D. Even with a new R. But it takes time. Lots and lots of time. It gets better, but its not here completely.

Thanks for your input.

Barb