Hey Barb
Well girly we have been at this a longgg time havent we? you a bit longer then me. We've seen and heard it all! from the MLCers and the LB

First I think GB is right, it could be yes, it could be no, it could be maybe-- and in the end , does it matter? yea, it probably does, it would to me, as much as people tell me it dosnt matter, you've gone on w/ your life, I would still like to hear a iota of regret or sorrow from my ex, a sorry, or oops! anything! but alas, probably wont.
Barb, I think even the worst of the worst MLCers like our Bozos will once in a while peek their heads out, whether it be to snoop or just keep their ego in tact, wanting to know if everyone is still at least thinking of them,,, who knows if it means they have any regrets.

This past summer my ex poked his head out by calling me about Ryan going off to college, he was as nice as can be, telling me i was an awesome mother and that's why Ry made it into the college he is going to, how i did a great job raising him, we laughed and reminised, he even brought over money for me when I needed it as a birthday gift
,,, I thought hmmmm maybe he is starting to regret, question himself,,, feeling melonchony w/ our S going off to school. Well lo and behold a few days later, he turned back into cold, aloof ex. and I havent heard a peep from him since, apart when I called to tell him our family dog died and he didn't seem to really care and I got the nice surprise the non exsistent ow was now not only exsistent, but living w/ him!!

So there ya go, a pop out of the tunnel for a couple of weeks then worse then ever.
Just thought I'd share an example of mine, In the end Barb, we can only keep doing what we have been doing for the last 4-5 yrs. Being the best moms/daughters/girlfriends we can

oh and btw HAPPY BIRTHDAY GIRLY!!!!

Be Happy for this Moment,
This Moment is your Life