Quote: I'd give anything to have him be distracted by the way I look (I do look great, he just doesn't see it anymore)!
One thing my hubby has opened up to me about lately is the way I handled getting his attention. He has said that sometimes a man will not notice your new haircut or the 5 lbs you worked so hard to lose (insensitive yes, I know) but that doesnt mean he doesnt notice you period. I think with men, they require a little less subtlety. Sometimes a little shock and awe is necessary. If you are really shy, maybe you could try being aggressive. Maybe do something a little wild, a little adventureous. I am not an expert and I dont know your personal situation very well but would love to hear what you think.
