Goodness do I feel for you... I am going through something similar... but my husband has left with OW... he said move on dont wait around... yet the second he finds out someone is around he says so many comments... personnaly I just want him to come back home... I miss his company quite a bit... but am not sure I can trust him again soon....but then again there is no plans on him comming home soon! But I understand a great deal about comments that are inappropriate.... I keep telling myself if you so wanted out why in the world do you care what I do with my life!!! Even more considering he cheated on me and left me for her!!! My advice (at least this is what I try to do) is simply make jokes out of his comments... even if sometimes it confuses the hell out of me... I often feel he is manipulating me... but I have got to think of me.... so try your best and send his comments right back at him... who knows maybe they will hit home!!
Me 31 H 36 2 kids (D2,D4) Status: enjoying my life all by my big self!!!;) "Life is short eat desert first!!"
But I understand a great deal about comments that are inappropriate.... I keep telling myself if you so wanted out why in the world do you care what I do with my life!!! Even more considering he cheated on me and left me for her!!! My advice (at least this is what I try to do) is simply make jokes out of his comments... even if sometimes it confuses the hell out of me... I often feel he is manipulating me... but I have got to think of me.... so try your best and send his comments right back at him... who knows maybe they will hit home!! 
