SL prior to separation was pretty dire which was my fault. As far as I know there wasn't another woman involved. Yes we are doing things as a couple. In fact this has improved immensely from before the bomb as we are going out together without S2 on a regular basis and having a great time. We are also watching DVD's together or just TV. Neither of us are in counseling. H won't go and I don't feel brave enough to go alone.
Me 34
H 33
S2
Together 10yrs
Married 6yrs
Bomb 12th Aug 06