Hi Inpain... Even though your H is back home, he still has his wall up. What was your sex life like prior to the separation? Was another woman involved? Do you find time as a couple to have some fun and relax? Are either of you in counseling? ( Just trying to get more info here).

It's an awful feeling being intimacy deprived...I have been on both ends of things in my marriage ( being the rejector and the rejectee)...it takes a lot of patience to work the issues out. Hang in there!