The most difficult part of db is patience I want it better now. I don't want to be in this pain any more I don't want to live in limbo land any more. But I am doing it and things are getting better and I know that's what I need to focus on not the rate of the change. One month ago he told me that I had to realize that our marriage was over that he was moving on with his life and I should do the same. Last night we went to dinner a concert and he spent the night here. He put his arms around me and it felt genuine. So that's what I must focus on. He told me tonight was his night off and that hurt but I bit my tongue....
Me 45 H 51 married 15 yrs D 13, S's 10,8 bomb 1-06, moved out 3-06 filed for D, 7-06,10-06,11-06,12-06 3-07, asked to try again 6-07 D on hold D process restarted 10-07 now trying to reconcile!
