Another baby step, H spent the night here again last night. He seemed happy this am when he went to work. He is going to vegas for a few days with a friend of both of ours who encouraged him to move back so I am not worried about ow being with him on this trip. In a way i am glad he will be away cuz gives me a few days to regroup. We/I do no R talk at all, but we are planning a family trip for spring break, but I am not pushing it. I have realized that until we have a R (he is back in the house and ready to "work") then we can talk R. I am going to try to not read D/R books this weekend and focus on kids and me only. (Cat thanks for the advice re threads) ---------------- Me,44 H 50 D12 S9 S6 bomb Jan 2006
Me 45 H 51 married 15 yrs D 13, S's 10,8 bomb 1-06, moved out 3-06 filed for D, 7-06,10-06,11-06,12-06 3-07, asked to try again 6-07 D on hold D process restarted 10-07 now trying to reconcile!