IC is a great idea. When my H came back I so wanted him to "fix" what "he had broken". I was on an emotional rollercoaster and my H couldnt' handle that.
So do take care of yourself, the LBS do bring on the drama once the WAS come back, so my advice is: dont.

Quote:

so am setting myself up for disappointment.

I so understand this , for the longest time my H was back, I kept expecting him to say he still wanted to try it w/the ow, to tell me "this isn't really working" , etc etc, all sorts of negative scenarios. It's understsandable after having the rug pull from under your feet and your trust shattered.

Don't loose hope and dont' let fear ruin what youv'e worked so hard to achieve.

Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.