As an update. Got a call about 6:30 this evening from the X asking if I was home. She had a piece of mail for me from the PO Box since my mail forward has not gone through yet. A card from a friend.
Comes over, stops in for a cup of tea and stays until 9pm!!!! WHY????????
Again, such a comfortable conversation. She complained about work and what they are doing there. Told me that she again does not really have a social life and all.
At the end, I think I probably messed up a bit. Offered her a copy of Phoenix Mag which highlights the good resturants in town. She said that she really didn't have the time to go right now. I told her that I would take her to some new place then. She said that she didn't want me to feel like I needed to take her for pity. I left it at that. She then told me about how she went and saw a movie alone this past Saturday night.
Am I being stupid and not realizing the hints that she is dropping or what?????? I really don't want to force something and really am afraid to try to open a door that she doesn't want opened. Not sure what to do??? Do I take the risk and ask her out on a date or what?
While I am dating someone now, I know for the right situation I would take my XW back in a heartbeat. Wow, never thought I would be in this situation?
CIAZ M 7/97 S 5/05 D 8/06 Both 33 years old No kids
