This past weekend was the first time we have been together in a quiet enviornment. Since the divorce, we would see each other at the exchange of our son, at his events etc...
I agree with you that I was much more relaxed with her over the weekend because there was no pressure. It wasn't quite like dating since we did not do anything without our son but it was a bit strange that in some ways it was like we had not missed a beat.
Now knowing that she is interested in trying to work things out, the apprehension has started to creep back in. I have to stay focused and not let it change me back into that worry wart that she grew to dislike when we were struggling in the marriage. It is the relaxed and comfortable guy that she began to notice returning that reopened her eyes in the first place.
