Quick Question - Strange Email from XW

[Confused_in_AZ]

I was very hesitant to mention my new interest to XW. Didn't want to seem to rub it in her face. During her questioning about her, I did make a point to mention that I was taking things extremely slow and even after months of dating, we had not (and still have not been intimate). That is out choice on both of our parts as we both are getting out of long term relationships (me marriage, her engagement). XW mentioned how she has not been dating and has not even been asked out on a date yet. I think I said something supporting her and to make her feel good about her self….they don't know what they are missing…etc. She responded with the fact that she has no life and sits a home most weekends. Complete opposite of me. GALing was my first priority after the papers were signed. While XW knew I was not for the D, I told her that I would not fight it in anyway. It was her decision and while I did not believe the same way, I would support her decision. In AZ, your D is like going through MickyD's…..60 days and it is done! Crazy!

Thanks for the insight. Curious to see what might come of tonights conversation. Very curious as communicating feelings is not one of her strong points. Apparently she had been very unhappy and hit a "wall" if you will which is why we got divorced. Probably figured it was me that was the source but actually her. Hence the email. Also, I was just at our PO Box on Wed and there was no mail for me there. Not sure what she has then for me. Should be interesting.