Thanks Teach! That is exactly what I am planning to do. Go with the flow of things and see where they go. I was curious to see if others had the same viewpoint.

I think it might have jarred her a bit. Before the D, I was still slightly pursuing, didn't "give up" if you will until the papers were signed. After that, I knew she made her decision and started to go on with my "new life". Now, six months later, I know that she is not happy, that she doesn't have a life of her own. She also saw some friends of ours several weeks ago which probably jogged some old memories of when we were dating.

I just can't believe that the reason that she sent the email is to give me my mail. Is that really that important to HER??? And the subject line is what gets me most...."Can I See You?".

Will keep all informed.


CIAZ
M 7/97
S 5/05
D 8/06
Both 33 years old
No kids