Hello all! Been a while since I have posted. Doing well in my new life. My D went final about six months ago and while the holidays were a bit difficult, I survived them.

I have a question for you all and hoping for some feedback to prepare for a meeting with the XW tonight.

Some background. Our D ended nicely and have remained friends, usually get together for coffee or dinner about once per month. Met with her before the holidays which I bought her a gift and she baked some items for me. We talked for about four hours (longest time we have spent in a long while). She talked about how her dad is sick but getting better and grilled me on a new gal that I have been dating for several months. At the end of the night, we hugged and when I started pulling away, she kept me there in the embrace. Was that uncomfortable "should I kiss you or not" embrace at the end. I didn't and left shortly afterward. Sent her an email when I got home letting her know that I was there if she needed anything.

Well, did not hear from her until yesterday when she sent me an email with the subject line of "Can I See You?". Told me she wants to get together for a cup of coffee or "whatever". I got worried something was wrong with her father so I called and told her to call me and that I was worried something was wrong. She emailed back saying nothing wrong....that she "has mail for me". Normally she would have told me that in the original email but she didn't which makes me think something is up.

Trying to mentally prepare for what is coming. Anyone been here before? I feel stupid trying to analyze this when it might turn out to be absolutely nothing!

Thanks for the insight!


CIAZ
M 7/97
S 5/05
D 8/06
Both 33 years old
No kids