On the day that I was leaving my home country for Country X, i.e. New Year's Eve. I had lunch with my dad and sisters at a restaurant before going to the airport. And guessed who I saw?? ow's parents! Of course I didn't confront them... I told my sisters and they were just saying that maybe they should go up to them and say "Are you ow's parents? You all are such GOOD parents...teaching your daughter to have affairs with married men!". Well, of course they didnt'. I did text H to tell him that I saw them. He was rather curious as to how I could recognise them. Anyway, he didn't ask more when I saw him later. So, issue dropped....
I should be happy with the little gestures from H. I went away with some girlfriends for 3 nights and H babysat the boys. When I came back on Sunday, H was waiting for me at the airport. He could have stayed home (boys didn't want to come pick me up!!!) and just send the driver over... When H was still an ALIEN, he didn't even pick us (boys and I) the first time we visited him in this foreign country. He sent the driver whom I've not met at all. So....we've come a looooooong way.